The golden rule of Jumpstart is the importance of not making
a kid share. I know that if I talk to other corps members and team leaders,
they’d disagree. On a personal level, it’s the most important because it’s the
one that I most often forget.
I
stand at dramatic play, a smile plastered on my face. Reading went extremely
well today, more than well… It was amazing. Standing at dramatic play with that
smile plastered on my face, I can feel it in my bones…today’s session is going
to be great. Watching them literally sprint from circle time to dramatic play,
I can feel my smile falter a little. My scholars are extremely smart and
perceptive. I wonder if they can sense the fear radiating from my body.
Cooking
was the name of the game that day at dramatic play, well ideally anyway. The
extent of my scholar’s imagination is unlimited. Making pizza quickly became a
session of washing dishes, which quickly led to playing house. My job in the
game was pretty simple, I sat while they took care of me. As a general rule,
the pizza was not allowed to be eaten until all of us were sitting at the tiny
table, with tiny chairs that I struggled to fit in. If not pizza that was on
the table, then it was pasta with honey on it, or a burger with ranch.
Dramatic
play, no matter how prepared the center is, is always a complete chaos. It was
on days like this that I wished I had 5 sets of eyes and 3 pairs of arms. The
fights that occurred in dramatic play always involved the subject of sharing.
There weren’t enough pizza pans, dishes, or aprons. Some girls would hold on
for them for 5 minutes, put them down, and soon forget them. Other girls would
hold on to them as if their dear little lives depended on it. When the argument
would eventually make its way toward me, and believe me, it always made its way
towards me, I would cringe inside. A part of me wanted so badly take the cop
out, tell the fighting scholars to share, then quickly turn my attention
elsewhere. It was so easy. All I had to do was say it. But somehow I just couldn’t.
Of course, saying that went against guidelines, but my reasoning went beyond
that. It wouldn’t be really fair to make them share. Not only that, it would
deprive them of one of the few rights they have when it comes to playing.
I
lean down, and I say that I will help them work this problem out. I give them
options on what else they can do, or an idea for a game that we can play
together. Seeing their eyes brighten at the options, I smile. Crisis averted.
~Erica Rodriguez
Corps member
Team Compassion
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